Monday, May 19, 2008

Dr.'s Visit

Well, we had another Dr.'s appointment today. Had some good news and some news that well Abigail is just going to have to make up her own mind and QUICK!!!!!! Mama is getting impatient for her arrival. OK for the good news: Since last week (Thursday) I lost two lbs. and my iron went from 9.0 ~ 9.8... I have also dilated to 1 cm..... yeah; my body is starting to go to work... Now could it just hurry a little. He guesses her to weigh between 8 and 8.6 lbs

Bad news or OK news..... I am not effaced yet, and will not be induced this week unless she decides to come on her own. I am/was so hoping for a baby by Friday. So every one send their prayers, thoughts and wishes my way. If she doesn't come by Tuesday, May 27th then I will be admitted that night and induced Wednesday, the 28th.

This would be kind of ironic, in a way, if she was born on the 28th.... Brian and I married on the 12th of April, Brian's mom's birthday... If Abigail is to be born by inducing on the 28th of May then that is Brian's dad's birthday. I hope he feels wonderful about ''maybe'' getting a granddaughter on his birthday. I am fine either way ~ born of her own accord this week or by induction next week. It certianly isn't my call ~ it is mother nature's call on when I go into labor.

I go back this Friday (May 23rd) for another NST if she hasn't made her arrival by then....an NST reading of the baby is good for 5 days; I didn't know that before today.

From us ~ to you all, Hannah and Brian

Saturday, May 17, 2008

A Scare... but good news

Had a NST today due to a scare... she didn't move in 4 hours... Went to L&D was hooked up and after about 40 minutes and 8 oz. of sugary grape juice she started moving. I have had tightening for quite some time... but it has never shown up on the NST --- today it did. They were contractions or BH (Braxton Hicks). Ranging from 5 min. to 11 min. apart; that was pretty neat to see. Most I didn't feel... and considering I have a high level of tolerance for pain they were not surprised that I hadn't mentioned the tightening. They did say there was a lot of amniotic fluid ... b/c Abigail is positioned above my belly button other than her head... it is facing down toward the birth canal. She is a stubborn little thing.

Thursday, May 15, 2008

Some not so great news

I got a call from my Dr. today informing to please come in before Noon so that they could get my appointment in. I go in since they were shutting the office down at Noon due to the fact that he received three non scheduled emergency c-sections... Poor guy. I was supposed to be admitted tonight to the hospital at 7 PM and induced tomorrow. However, after the cervical check at 11:30 Abigail is head down but still to high up to induce without causing complications to me. So Abigail will be kicking me for a little while longer... Please come baby girl.... I do have another Appointment at 10 AM on Monday if she doesn't show her face by then. It is a day by day thing now... does anyone know of anygood ways to get Abigail to drop... LOL

Wednesday, May 14, 2008

Glamour shots from Home




These are some "glamour" shots taken by Johnna in our home... I was too nervous to show this much to any "professional." Johnna did a great job.... Thanks so much!!!

Monday, May 12, 2008

Last belly picture

Well, this is my last belly pic prior to delivery unless I can get some glam shots... would love to have some... we shall see.

Thursday, May 8, 2008

I had another appointment today... Another NST ~Abigail looks/is acting great... She needs to still move in the head down position she is a little to far to the left (her head anyway). I gained .25 lbs since Tues.... the Dr. said if my blood pressure was out of whack then he would state in my chart preeclampsia since I have all the other signs of it other than the bad blood pressure. I go back next Thursday at 4 PM for my last appointment with him for six weeks and then on to the hospital at 7 PM after I have a good supper. LOL

Tuesday, May 6, 2008

Today's Visit

Okay... well there is more news!!!

My iron is off the charts again... Way too low 8.0 so I left the Dr.'s office to go get another prescription of iron and came back so that they could give me my fourth iron shot this pregnancy. Since they cannot give iron shots weekly; only bi-weekly he asked how I felt about having Abigail next week. I told him I was OK with that and then they set up a date to induce. I will be admitted Thursday, May 15th, and be induced Friday, the 16th. We should be holding our little miracle sometime that day.

This blog

Very shortly this blog will be coming to a close since Abigail will be arriving soon. I will continue to place my visits with my Dr. on here.

Tuesday, April 29, 2008

My appointment

Things looked good so to speak... she isn't ready. Being stubborn is more like it if you ask me. I had another NST today... Abigail's reading was great... my reading showed a lot more activity than previous times... but still no contractions. I only gained a pound since last Tuesday and I had a big lunch today, 2 glasses of water and half a milk shake (the last item) was to ensure more movement on Abigail's part today. So I am not sure if lunch weighed me down or if that weight is pretty acurate. They didn't check iron levels today ~ said the iron level won't change that much in a weeks time... Yeah for no needle pricking today!! He did move my due date up, but nothing for me to jump up and down about... The due date is now May 20th... WOW!!! a whole days difference. He also guessed for her to weigh about 6.5 to 7.25 lbs as of right now. LOL Even with things looking good I do have two appointments next week. (I hope that doesn't mean anything is serious) I have an appointment on May 6th @ 2:30 PM and on May 8th @ 10:00 AM. Even though I want Abigail here now I am trying to focus on other things to pass away the time till she makes her debut.

My sister-in-law is doing well. She has an appointment this Thursday. Can't wait to know the outcome of her visit. She is due Nov. 24th.

On May 10th, I have another baby shower to attend. My father-in-law's step daughter is due to have a little boy and she is due July 13th. So there will be a baby shower for her and her soon to be son. I am so excited for her.

Well ... today is another day

I will have another Dr.'s appointment today at 1:45.... I wonder what he will say. I am hoping for excellent news... News of Abigail being here soon. It is becoming increasingly difficult to move about and I feel so very sore and also so very tired most of the time. Sleep exists of small catnaps whenever I can get them, including at night. If I am not up because I have to pee, well then I am up due to being in pain, or an uncomfortable position to find to sleep in because of the size if my pregnant belly. Even with all this, and me wanting her here so badly... I know that the longer she is in there the better chance she has even if she is considered full term...Will update when I get home.

Friday, April 25, 2008

News... Good and Bad

I posted here earlier that my sister in law (Brian's sister and her husband) was expecting twins. For those that read my blog here is what is now taking place. Please keep Johnna and Edward in your thoughts and prayers.

I had my second ultra sound today 4/24/08 and we found out I am only having one baby. Baby A is doing really well with a heart beat of 182. Baby B however isn't growing and had no heart beat. I was told that it is a "Vanishing Twin." Edward and I are still excited and we hope that our family and friends are still just as excited. Please keep us in your thoughts and in your prayers.

Answers to frequently asked questions about Vanishing Twins

In recent years, enhanced use of ultrasound early in pregnancy has increased the frequency of diagnosis of twin pregnancy, and unfortunately, has produced a heightened awareness of the phenomenon of Vanishing Twin Syndrome

Here are the answers to Frequently Asked Questions about this condition.

What is Vanishing Twin Syndrome?

Vanishing Twin Syndrome occurs when one of a set of twin fetuses apparently disappears from the womb during pregnancy, usually resulting in a normal singleton pregnancy.

What really happens?

One of the fetuses in a twin pregnancy spontaneously aborts, usually during the first trimester; the fetal tissue is absorbed by the other twin, the placenta, or the mother, thus giving the appearance that the twin "vanished."

How is it diagnosed?

Here's a typical scenario: A mother undergoes a routine ultrasound early in her pregnancy, for example at six or seven weeks gestation. Two fetuses are detected. The mother is told she is having twins. When the mother returns to the doctor six weeks later, only one heartbeat can be heard with a Doppler scan. Another ultrasound is performed. Only one fetus is identified.
In other cases, a pregnant mother experiences symptoms that would seem to mimic miscarriage; however the single baby in her womb remains unaffected.

How often does it happen?

Scientists have confirmed that the number of twin conceptions greatly outnumbers the number of actual twin births. Some estimates offer that 1 in 8 people started life as a twin, while in reality only 1 in 70 actually are a twin. In "Having Twins," author Elizabeth Noble claims that 80% of twin pregnancies result in the loss of one or both babies. Other studies predict that Vanishing Twin Syndrome occurs in 21 - 30% of all multiple pregnancies in the United States. It is estimated that Vanishing Twin Syndrome will play a role in 50% of assisted ovulation pregnancies.

Why is it happening more frequently?

Although it would seem that incidences of Vanishing Twin Syndrome are increasing with alarming frequency, it is simply that the detection of the phenomenon has increased. Advancements in ultrasound technology allow modern doctors (and parents) the exciting opportunity to peek into the womb. As more doctors routinely use ultrasound in the first trimester, more multiple pregnancies are identified. And a certain percentage of those will be affected by Vanishing Twin Syndrome. In the past, many women experienced VTS without ever knowing it.

What causes it?

Just as there is no clear attributable cause for most miscarriages, there aren't always reasons or explanations for the loss of a fetus in a multiple pregnancy. In some cases, the fetus is in viable due to chromosomal or placental abnormalities. Some studies suggest that because these abnormalities are more common in older women, Vanishing Twin Syndrome occurs more often in mothers of advanced age. Vanishing Twin Syndrome occurs with equal frequency in mono zygotic and di zygotic twins, although the complications of sharing a placenta between monochorionic mono zygotic twins may contribute to the condition.

What are the symptoms?

There might not be any symptoms. However, some mothers experience some mild cramping, bleeding or pelvic discomfort, similar to miscarriage. Decreasing hormone levels may also indicate that one fetus has been reabsorbed.

What is the treatment?

Generally, neither the mother nor the remaining fetus will require any kind of medical treatment. When VTS occurs in the first trimester, the mother usually goes on to experience a normal pregnancy and delivers a healthy singleton. However, in situations where a fetus dies in the second or third trimester, the mother may experience pre-term labor, infection or hemorrhaging. In those cases, doctors will prescribe treatment appropriate for those conditions.

Wednesday, April 23, 2008

The last of the Baby Showers

At 3:30 yesterday, I had the last of my baby showers. This was a diaper shower thrown by the Freshman Academy at Crescent High School. There were lots of diapers given and Abigail got some more clothes, toys, a bumbo, a gift card, a gift from India, and a photo album, as well. The principle stood up and gave a speech and then Brian did and then I was asked to (not my forte at all ~ giving speeches, but I think I did OK). The outpouring of love that Brian and I have received at all three baby showers is very overwhelming for me at times and also very emotional (in a good sense). I know that Abigail is loved and wanted and it shows in part through all the things she has received, the well wishes for her dad and I and the involvement shown through family, friends, and coworkers.

Tuesday, April 22, 2008

News from Dr. Rivera...

Several things are starting to take place:

My weight still looks great.... 16 lbs gained during the total pregnancy

My iron ~ not so great; it dropped from 10.1 to 9.1 (I guess this is part of the reason I am tired).

Abigail has started to come down and right now seems to be head down... YEAH (hoping for a vaginal birth). This was the pelvic exam... these will start coming more often too.

He said, "May is just around the corner," and he is so right.... She can come now though. I am starting to have Braxton Hicks...

I had a NST (non stress test) this was good this time around too... she was a little stubborn about moving the number of times she needed to within the time frame... Abigail~ your mama is telling you it is uncomfortable to lay for 30-40 min in that position on those beds/tables. Next week you better act right.
Well, I have another Dr.'s visit today. I do know I will be required to watch the C-section video. (Joy joy)... I am so not wanting one if I can help it, and I would be thrilled to go into labor after midnight tonight if that could be at all arranged ~ Abigail. I am sure I will have another NST (non stress test) today... I have been having them weekly for quite some time now. I guess they will check my iron levels too. I am praying for a good result there, but unless I am supposed to be this tired; I am guessing my iron levels are down again. Either today or next Tuesday ~ I will find out when they will start doing the pelvic exams... Great...! One more thing to look "forward" to. Abigail get here quick please....

I have my last baby shower today... It is at 3:30 and this baby shower is being thrown by Brian's coworkers at Crescent High school. Every baby shower has brought Abigail plenty of wonderful and nice things... Even things for us (the new mom and dad to be). Family, Friends, clients, and coworkers have been so very gracious. I don't know how to thank them all enough. For those of you reading this blog that do not know us personally or the trials and tribulations we have been through (six miscarriages) you need to know one thing for sure. Abigail as been a prayed for, prayed over baby and her mom and dad are overjoyed by the abundance and outpouring of prayers, thoughts, well wishes, and gifts.

Monday, April 21, 2008

Dr. Hart

Brian took the day off today so the we could go meet with the pediatrician... WOW what a great guy/Dr. He took about an hour of his time to go over plenty of things with us and made sure if we had any questions to answer them. He went over family history with us and really made us feel at ease. Here's to hoping that he is good with Abigail, as well.

Brian also headed to St. Marys today to get the needed paperwork for us to attend the baptism class May 13th. So on his day off he is trying to get lots of work done along with all the grading he has to do today. LOL ;)

Sunday, April 20, 2008

Baby Shower update....

It went great and several of the many people showed up. Sandra (a daycare mom) got the bedding set. Thanks so very much. Abigail received more clothes, diapers, diaper cake, toys, bath products, and quilt.. Mom and dad (Brian and I) received a check to get some additional things for Abigail and a diaper bag (or as Brian calls it ~ a go bag). Some things still in the works... My mom is refinishing an antique high chair that I bought at a yard sale, my dad is making her a toy box, and her Aunt M... (Mary~my sister) is knitting her a blanket. My mom also made the quilt and did a wonderful job of putting the shower together... it was a real smorgasbord of food.

A big thank you to: the following people for coming and being a part of this baby shower.

Mom, Betsy and Mary ~ Aunt Becky and her girls Heather and Heidi (my cousins). Lisa ~ a friend, Sandra (daycare mom) and her two kiddos... (my angels), Amy and her children... (Cheyenne and Buddha/aka Austin) and her newest addition Trista, and also two of my mom's friends from church... Mrs. Evans and Mrs. Green. Thanks so much everyone.

Having a Baby Shower today

Well, I having my second of three baby showers today at 2 PM. I am really looking forward to it and hope that all goes well. This one is being thrown by my side of the family and hoping to see some friends there that were invited. I will update when I get home or tomorrow. With so much going on these last few weeks... I need to plan for anything even the unexpected. LOL I will be packing my hospital bag this week too. Well, in the words of T-i-double g-e-r, "Ta~ta for now."

Friday, April 18, 2008

It's Friday :)

I am so glad to see this day of the week... LOL While my job isn't overly draining it can be exhausting being this pregnant. The kids are great, play well together, and generally listen without being to upset. All three children know that I am expecting... the oldest in my care just smiles when I talk about it, the 2 year old will hug me a lot or rub my belly... the youngest, well let's just say he has known about it for the longest time (had to be careful about picking him up) and he was here when we bought the doppler.. He thinks it is Abigail's cell phone; since we can "hear" even if it just a few kicks, or listening to her heartbeat. His sister who was in my care for 4 years also can't wait for her "sister" to arrive. It is just way too cute. I don't ever need to worry about my daughter not having the love of friends, and or family or those that have become family through long time built relationships. Everyone is looking forward to her getting here and getting here fast.

I have a baby shower on Sunday at my parent's place. I am looking forward to that. One of the daycare moms gave me two of the most adorable outfits, and a pack of diapers. I will post pictures soon of her clothes (they will be in piles) there are so many of them. I am so very grateful for the love and outpouring of generosity for Brian, myself and for Abigail.

Wednesday, April 16, 2008

Bedding set

Someone got this for Abigail's crib.... I can't wait to see it in person. I now know what colors to paint the nursery. Aunt Becky and Reed are you two up the the job?!??!?!!? This is all starting to set in and be so real for me; maybe because I am so close the the finish line. You think so?

5 Weeks or 35 days

Wow... I have come a long way considering that a women is pregnant 280 days if she delivers on the estimated due date. Little Abigail isn't so very little anymore... All organ development is complete. She is fattening up right now. I can't wait for my angel to arrive... After many miscarriages, many attempts to carry a baby to term... we have little Abigail in arms reach now. I still pray daily for a healthy baby girl, and pray that we still carry her to the finish line (whenever she may decide to make her appearance). I don't think a mother can ask for much more. Tomorrow I go in at 2:45 PM for my next appointment...Whew~~~~ sigh... I am tired already this morning and it is only 8:00 AM...

Monday, April 14, 2008

Baptism Gown



This is Abigail's Baptism/Dedication Gown... It needs to be ironed... We will have her baptized about two weeks after she is born... I do plan on sending out invitations to those that were invited to the baby showers.... and of course our male friends that weren't invited to the showers (since most view this as a women's thing) will also receive an invite. It will look beautiful on her!!

A new week

Well, it is the start of a new week, and I bet you wonder what I am up too... LOL not a whole lot just yet. I need to get the nursery put together and I and waiting on my clothes hangers to come in ... (all 80 of them) I am sure that I will need more... LOL Abigail's crib is stacked with clothes in them and also a clear plastic tub or two. And then of course... where are all her shoes going to go. Brian thought it awful funny to see all the clothes and shoes and wondered why she has more shoes and clothes than the two of us combined. I told him babies just get them. I am not sure yet which room in my house (only two) that I will make into the nursery. I had thought about turning the master bedroom in to the nursery and daycare room.. but then of course I want to paint it. I am not sure how good that will look if I ever want to rent or sell the house without me repainting it. If I use the other room, well then I don't think it is big enough to hold all of Abigail's things and the daycare things... Choices, choices and more choices... guess I better hurry and decide, as I have 5 week and 3 days counting today or less... that is if our darling decides to come early... I am so wanting to start on things as my "nesting" instinct is kicking in... Last week... I washed windows... something that has never bothered me before. Oh the work load a little one can put on her mama!!!!

Saturday, April 12, 2008

Diapers....and showers

I have two more up coming showers... and one is a diaper shower... Most of you that have read my blog may have known that I am/was planning on using cloth diapers... I am still on planning this but to a much smaller degree for right now... I plan on using them around the house.. (my reason was to cut down on expense)... After talking it over with Brian there is one thing I do realize and did before but didn't really know how he felt either... Life is going to be busy enough with a newborn not to even mention that I will not really be taking anytime off from work (providing childcare) I might as well make my life a little simpler. I am still planning on using cloth diapers just not exclusively anymore. I guess if I won the lotto and could afford to go with a diaper service for washing and cleaning that might be an easier choice then, but for now I am very grateful for the cloth diapers I do have and look forward to the diaper shower, as well.

April 12th...

Today ... is/was our anniversary. We have been married now for 5 years, and I am happy to say that I hope we are together 5x12 years from now. Today was pretty laid back... I woke up early, as usual and Brian slept till about 11 (not so usual). We watched a couple of taped shows, went to Mass, then the Indian Palace... (my that was heaven)... We went to get some natural spring water near my parents and then stopped in to see them. Great visit, but glad to be home as I am so tired... Brian has also talked about his mom quite a bit today. I think he really misses her and the fact that she isn't here as she always wanted grandchildren. "Mom would know what to do" he told me today... I am sad that he doesn't have her here. I did tell him that he has his dad and his sister along with all of his extended family from both sides.

Friday, April 11, 2008

This night ... 5 years ago

Tonight 5 years ago... I don't believe I got much sleep.... I was going to be getting married (which I did) I married a really wonderful man. He has his faults, but then again so do I. But we love each other in spite of it all. We are planning to go to church tomorrow and then to the Indian Palace... I am getting Lamb Vandaloo... hot, very hot and spicy... just the way I like it... Hmmmm might even "force" Abigail to work her way out... (an old wise tale)... but certainly worth trying in my humble opinion. I am starting to feel a tad more; maybe a lot more miserable... I am hot and I am noticing that my feet are starting to swell a bit more and the joints hurt... where my toes are connected to my feet. Abigail is still kicking and must be enjoying the "climate controlled" area she is living in right now... Temps are just right for her.

Wednesday, April 9, 2008

42 days or Less

Well, since the Dr. won't be letting me go over, I have 42 days or less as of today. I am so ready. Sierra, the very first child I ever kept in my care is ready for her "sister" to be here. She said tonight when I saw her that Abigail was ready to come. Out of the mouth of babes; Nanny- mommy is ready too. Working all day with three very well behaved kids (most days anyway) is starting to get long... I love them and try my best to keep a positive outlook on each day even though I am sure even I am cranky from time to time... I guess the old saying, "If mama isn't happy~nobody is happy," just might be true. Please keep me in your thoughts and prayers.

Tuesday, April 8, 2008

Dr.'s Appointment

NST went well; everything is looking good. My iron went from 9.2 (last week) to 10.1 today. YEAH!!!! I think the last time I saw 10.1 was in November of last year. Abigail's heart rate was 168 and I lost 4 lbs. Go Hannah~~~~ I see Dr. Rivera next Thursday at 2:45. Wish me well!!! By the way, I did ask him if she didn't come before her due date what was he thinking of doing. He said he will normally allow a woman to go 7-9 days over, but given my past history if she doesn't make an appearance on her own my the 21st he will induce, or there will be a c-section. I am praying for Abigail Chrystalynn to come between April 20th and May 12th.

News....

After sixteen years of marriage my sister-in-law, Johnna and her husband, Ed found out that they are expecting. Today they had the ultrasound and found out they are to be doubly blessed.

Congrats to you both.

Love Hannah

Monday, April 7, 2008

Smoking while pregnant... what are they Thinking?

I am writing this after seeing several women smoking while pregnant. Have you absolutely no regard to the life inside of you? Do you only care and think about yourself? Is it too much effort to care? I post this because I do care about your unborn son or daughter. Get a grip; smoke if you want to... it is a nasty habit, doesn’t look attractive if a man does it and even less attractive ~ more like trashy if a woman does it. Can’t you get over yourself for just 9 months at least that if you care so much about the child you are carrying?

Cigarette smoke contains more than 2,500 chemicals. It is not known for certain which of these chemicals are harmful to the developing baby, but both nicotine and carbon monoxide play a role in causing adverse pregnancy outcomes.

How can smoking harm the newborn?
Smoking nearly doubles a woman’s risk of having a low-birthweight baby. In 2004, 11.9 percent of babies born to smokers in the United States were of low birthweight (less than 5½ pounds), compared to 7.2 percent of babies of nonsmokers. Low birthweight can result from poor growth before birth, preterm delivery or a combination of both. Smoking has long been known to slow fetal growth. Smoking also increases the risk of preterm delivery (before 37 weeks of gestation). Premature and low-birthweight babies face an increased risk of serious health problems during the newborn period, chronic lifelong disabilities (such as cerebral palsy, mental retardation and learning problems), and even death. The more a pregnant woman smokes, the greater the risk to her baby. However, if a woman stops smoking even by the end of her second trimester of pregnancy, she is no more likely to have a low-birthweight baby than a woman who never smoked.

Can smoking cause pregnancy complications?
Smoking is associated with a number of pregnancy complications. Smoking cigarettes doubles a woman’s risk of developing placental problems. These include:
Placenta previa (a low-lying placenta that covers part or all of the opening of the uterus)
Placental abruption (in which the placenta peels away, partially or almost completely, from the uterine wall before delivery). Both can result in heavy bleeding during delivery that can endanger mother and baby, although cesarean delivery can prevent most deaths. Smoking in pregnancy increases a woman’s risk of premature rupture of the membranes (PROM), when the sac that holds the baby inside the uterus breaks before completion of 37 weeks of pregnancy. (Usually, when it breaks, normal labor ensues within a few hours.) If the rupture occurs before 37 weeks of pregnancy, it often results in the birth of a premature baby. '

Does smoking affect fertility?
Cigarette smoking can cause reproductive problems before a woman even becomes pregnant. Studies show that women who smoke may have more trouble conceiving than nonsmokers. Studies suggest that fertility returns to normal after a woman stops smoking.

Does smoking during pregnancy cause other problems in babies or young children?
A 2003 study suggests that babies of mothers who smoke during pregnancy undergo withdrawal-like symptoms similar to those seen in babies of mothers who use some illicit drugs. For example, babies of smokers appear to be more jittery and difficult to soothe than babies of nonsmokers. Babies whose mothers smoked during pregnancy are up to three times as likely to die from sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS) as babies of nonsmokers.

Can exposure to secondhand smoke during pregnancy harm the baby?
Studies suggest that babies of women who are regularly exposed to secondhand smoke during pregnancy may have reduced growth and may be more likely to be born with low birthweight. Pregnant women should avoid exposure to other people’s smoke.

How can a woman stop smoking?
The March of Dimes recommends that women stop smoking before they become pregnant and do not smoke throughout pregnancy and after the baby is born. A woman’s health care provider can refer her to a smoking-cessation program or suggest other ways to help her quit. The March of Dimes supports a 5- to 15-minute, 5-step counseling approach called "The 5 A’s," which is performed by the health care provider during routine prenatal visits. This approach has been shown to improve smoking cessation rates among pregnant women by at least 30 percent.
Studies suggest that certain factors make it more likely that a woman will be successful in her efforts to quit smoking during pregnancy. These include:

Attempting to quit in the past
Having a partner who doesn’t smoke
Getting support from family or other important people in her life
Understanding the harmful effects of smoking

How does exposure to smoke after birth affect a baby?
It is important to stay smoke-free after the baby is born. Parents should refrain from smoking in the home and should ask visitors to do the same. Babies who are exposed to smoke suffer from more lower-respiratory illnesses (such as bronchitis and pneumonia) and ear infections than do other babies. Babies who are exposed to their parents’ smoke after birth also may face an increased risk of asthma and SIDS. Smoking harms a mother’s health, too. Smokers have an increased risk of lung and other cancers, heart disease, stroke and emphysema (a potentially disabling and, sometimes, deadly lung condition). Quitting smoking makes parents healthier and better role models for their children.

Brian is sick

Brian is extremely sick~ food poisoning from Saturday. I am not sure why other than we ate the same things at the baby shower; although I didn’t eat the chicken salad. He has stayed in bed pretty much all of Sunday, and is going to call off work for Monday. I feel so bad for him-he has had a temp of 102.7; it has started to come down. I hate it when he feels miserable. I am glad to know that I didn’t eat the chicken salad as I don’t know what that would have done to me; I have gone back to having a very sensitive stomach the last three weeks and would hate to have food poisoning on top of it all. Here is hoping Brian feels a whole lot better real soon.

Sunday, April 6, 2008

Baby Shower

Well, I had the first of three baby showers yesterday. There were a lot of people to show up and some that even came from out of town.. It was really nice to see everyone there. As soon as I get some pictures back I will post them. The baby shower was video taped. I am hoping that everyone had a good time even with the way things have been. Everyone brought very nice and generous gifts for Abigail... even if some didn't know that we were having a girl. It was good. I want to thank Grandma Gladys for putting the whole thing together and employing the help of Johnna (the cake), Aunt Pat (pictures and set up), Misty (decorations) and Jackie (helping Grandma with the food). Thanks everyone!!

Saturday, April 5, 2008

Hurting...

I am starting to hurt as I am sure every woman who has every been pregnant knows where. Geee. It hurts to walk, change sides, and a whole other host of things happen to hurt if I am up and about. Is it time? Well, somehow I doubt it. Could it please be time? .... well, I hope so. It gets to the point sometimes of not being able to stand up straight... Like my body feels better in a cramped, and hunched over position. Several people are thinking that Abigail just might be an April baby instead of May baby... All I ask is that she be completely mature enough to be able to leave the hospital when I do that all of her organs be at full working potential at birth. I would kind of like her to wait till after next Saturday (April 12th) this will be our 5th yr anniversary, but I will await and look forward to her arrival whichever date she chooses. Babies have a way of doing that you know... coming when they are darn good and ready. I don't think the hurting as of yet is contractions but geeeee it still hurts.

Thursday, April 3, 2008

Life as we now know it

Life as we know it is about to change. Our little girl is going to make her appearance sooner or later… hopefully sooner. I can only think that all the struggles and tribulations that we have been through as a couple have been for a reason. Why? I am sure that I will never know, but then again God doesn’t say to us He will give us the answers. That is where our trust and faith come in and we have to know that He will give us the strength to get through each day.

Sleepless nights and long filled days are just around the corner. I hope that I remember that no matter how tired, sleepy, grumpy or even agitated I get that she doesn’t have a schedule in place that I will remember to treasure each moment as though it could be my last. I think I have lived my life in such a way that I don’t have any regrets and I want no regrets when it comes to Abigail. I know that I will not be the perfect mother; there will be times that I fail her and myself. I hope that I can learn to forgive myself and that she will forgive me too when I do fail.

Brian and I can’t wait for her arrival. WOW life is going to change~~~ Bring the change on.

Wednesday, April 2, 2008

32 weeks 7 days....

Whew... sigh. I am ending week 33 today... 7 weeks to go. I am so tired, exhuasted, and so very ready for her to be here. The weather is starting to get to me. I am hot, but refuse to turn the air on just yet. So here is to hoping relief comes soon in the form of cooler weather and a baby...

Tuesday, April 1, 2008

Just collecting my thoughts~long

The past 33 weeks have been a real eye opener for me. I have plenty of time to think about what I want for our daughter and what I want from myself as her mother.

I want above all for Abigail to know that she is loved and was thought about with love and joy from day one even if there were days I wondered how much longer can I endure the discomforts associated with pregnancy. Although, many times I have said I would go through everything ten times over just to be where I am today with her. Someone asked me yesterday, “Has your pregnancy gone by slowly or has it flown by?” I would have to say flown by even though there are times it seems to drag… maybe because I am so impatient to have her in my arms. They say to enjoy pregnancy, because it is a time frame you don’t ever get the chance to relive or get back. When Abigail is born there will be a whole new set of milestones to look forward to, but right now…I treasure those late night kicks (even if I wake up tired). I know I will miss the times that Brian and I sat and listened to her heart beating wildly, (like a stampede of galloping horses). We will miss the talking to her, reading to her, popping her little butt while in my womb just to get her to move or punch back. I cried the first time I felt her move and then I wanted to feel it all the time.

I am glad to know that my dad (her grandpa) will be there for her and calls me weekly to find out how I am doing, how his grandbaby is doing, how much longer before she gets here? It is way too cute. I am glad my mother (her grandma) is excited and calls to see if there is anything she can do for me, can she bring a meal or plant some flowers in my flower bed. I am glad and honored to know that her soon to be grandparents take such an interest in her and have long before we reached this stage of the game. I know that they will be active in her life and will want to do things with her. I am pleased to know that my daughter will have aunts, and uncles, and cousins that will love and care for her. That have prayed and wanted her here. I do know that Brian’s sister, Johnna will play a very active and loving role in Abigail’s life and I am very happy and grateful for that, as well. I must say it has been good to know that there are members of Brian’s extended family that call and want to be a part of her life, from both his dad and mom’s side. I know that my daughter will be well loved. And that means the most to me as a mother. It saddens me to think that Brian’s mom, Debra Charlynn isn’t here. I have only ever heard what a loving mom and wife she was, and how much she wanted grandchildren. I am sorry that I never got to meet her before marrying her son. Her children, (Brian and Johnna) have told me so much about her. Brian’s dad will be her pawpaw (grandpa). This is his first grandchild, his granddaughter, Abigail. I am hoping that there will be a bond between them.

I am her mother, the person that loved her, prayed for her, and wanted her with all of my heart. I am going to proctect her to the best of my ability. That is a mother’s job! And I take on my role has mother with love and with a passion that won’t be denied.

Monday, March 31, 2008

Am I there Yet?

...Not quite but almost. Praise be to God. I don't know if I can handle getting any bigger. I don't sleep well at night. (you try this with a watermelon taped to your stomach) I hope there are a few men who will try this to see what this feels like for a woman.

Sunday, March 30, 2008

Update on my niece ~ Rachael Morgan

Bob, Becky, and Rachael Morgan (Easter '08~3 months old)

Yes, Aunt Hannah bought you the outfit.. but you look more adorable than ever. Can't wait to see you.

Thursday, March 27, 2008

Furniture

Well, Brian put the crib together on Wednesday and the changing table today... They both look very well made and were not difficult to put together either.. (and I couldn't be of really any help), because it is a "man" thing to want to put together your child's furniture. Brian wanted to make sure that it was put together and was done right so that it would be safe and sturdy for our daughter. I love this man, my husband and soon to be father of our child. Neither of us can hardly wait. We have found our Pediatrician and will see him April 21st, at 8 AM. We have heard nothing but good about him... so here's to hoping that we like him too.

Wednesday, March 26, 2008

Catch up time

I was just so tired to get back on the computer after my second appointment yesterday... well it just didn't happen.

I had an appointment with my OB @ 3:30 PM.. this went well overall. My iron level was up to 9.0 still not good but hey better. That is about all I can work for at this point. I will have to take another iron shot next Tuesday... (I look like a pin cushion at this point) what is one more stick to my body? I gained one pound. So a ten pound gain during this pregnancy. Dr. says gaining a pound a week is normal at this point and that 1/2 lb goes to the baby each week (YIKES) she already weighs about 4 lbs and I have 8 weeks to go... well that is technically another 8 lbs gained with 4 going to the baby... An 8# baby... Way to make mama stress Abigail. (I am not hoping for a c-section at this point. Guess I better step up my walking which is an accomplishment in itself at this point. (it hurts to walk). I do want to thank everyone for their prayers, thoughts and well wishes. It means a lot to Brian and I to know that we have a "world" of family, friends, co-workers, and even people we have never met to know they are wanting the best for us.

Tuesday, March 25, 2008

3D ultrasound Appointment

Abigail is a real gymnast.... Right hand and foot covering her left eye. My what flexibility. By the way she isn't going to be a bald baby.

Our little boxer... people debate on the nose... a Forsyth or Roach nose? Guess we will know when she makes her appearance.

Monday, March 24, 2008

Coming up... (tomorrow)

Tomorrow 3/25 at 9 AM I will go back to have a retake on the 3D ultrasound. Anyone who would like to see a live take of it please let me know... I will send you the user name and password. I will let you know ahead of time. I have no idea how this appointment will turn out; she wasn't very co-operative at the last one so that is why they decided to do a retake. Also it will cost you $12.95 to be able to view it, but you can view it when ever you want after the first time with no re-occurring cost to you. (you don't have to be available to view it at 9 AM tomorrow either).

At 3:30 PM I go in for another Dr's appointment and another non stress test for the baby. These non stress tests will be done weekly at this point. I guess we will see if there was any weight gain (I am sure that there is at least some) - even with me being sick all week; and they will check my iron levels tomorrow.

Brian is on spring break ... and he as offered to pick up the daycare kids so that I can sleep in a little bit. I love him so much. Being sick (cold) I think and having a headache for about 4 days straight that I can't seem to get rid of--- I am very grateful to him. By the way.... he is so sure that this baby is ready to come now to meet him... must be a daddy thing. Moms get to carry the baby and dads don't have much to do in the day to day operations of that aspect of pregnancy -so being this close to the finish line he is very ready for her to be here.

Oh and tonight we have our 4th out of five prenatal classes.... tonight topic... c-sections and epidurals. OH boy... let's see if we have the stomach for that.

Sunday, March 23, 2008

Happy Easter to all

Wishing all a very happy Easter.

Friday, March 21, 2008

I was asked ...

... about gift certificates. I guess I really never thought of gift certificates to use. But here are some options. They make the Visa/MasterCard gift cards... These are used as a credit card. You tell them how much you want to put on there, and then it is something we use anywhere Visa or MasterCard is taken. There are other ways for gift certificates too .... of course at any of the places we are registered and then there is another place, as well. http://www.babybestbuy.com/ has some things we can really use but they didn't have a registry for me to set up there. The main thing I would get there is the cloth diapers has we are wanting to cloth diaper our baby girl.

Changing Table


A big Thank you to James & Crystal, Harvey & Lucille, and Del and Family for this wonderful changing table. It will be a wonderful addition to the nursery furniture.

Friday, March 14, 2008

30 Weeks and 2 days Picture


Yes, I know that I am getting "big" no need for anyone to tell me. LOL I am 2 days into week 31...How much longer do I have? Other than not getting sleep, having to pee 50 times a day, heartburn, iron being low, and maybe anything else that could possibly be a negative in this case ... I would gladly go through it all again (yes even all the needles and lab work done) just to be where I am today. I thank God daily for this little life - our daughter growing inside of me. Her kicks are something else. I think back to when we first found out and it seems like it wasn't that long ago. And it will soon be where did all the years go ~ as she grows up so quickly. I plan on taking lots of pictures, telling lots of stories and remembering everything. I am eternally grateful for this soon to be blessing in our lives. Abigail, we are waiting for you to arrive ~ so many family and friends are too.
Yes, But when you take your own picture is is a little harder to smile.

Members of my Family....

Tom (dad), Debbie (mom), Brian, Me, Besty (sister), & Mary (sister)
Bob (my brother), Becky & Rachael Morgan




Ed and Johnna (Brian's sister)

Wednesday, March 12, 2008

Co-Sleeper- recieved


A big Thank you to Sandra J. (daycare mom) for this wonderful co-sleeper. She has also given me many of Sierra's clothes (Sierra was born May 29th) ~ in '03 so almost 5 years later her clothes will go to good use. (Abigail is due May 21st) so they will be in the same season.

70 Days left/10 Weeks/2.5 months

... no I don't know the hours and minutes yet. Abigail Chrystalynn will be here before we know it. Let's just hope that I have everything ready. LOL I have a baby shower on April 5th and on April 20th. With what we have already recieved. (many baby clothes) crib, mattress, co-sleeper, moby wrap, Travel Stoller System, cradle (from when I was a baby).. I still have a high chair that is an antique that needs to be refinished. Got to get that done!!! I am feeling pretty confident that between the two showers I hope that it will almost finish up what is still needed. (Main thing... Clothe diapers) crib bedding and a few other needed items. Other than that we are pretty much all set. I can't believe how our friends, family members and even my daycare parents have come together for us. I think everyone has wanted a baby for as long as we have been married. My dad makes comments.. "I can't wait till my baby is here" LOL I have to remind him it is our baby~ his grandbaby... I just know that he is so excited. He is a saddened by the fact that is first grandaughter is 3000 miles away in CA. Hopefully my brother and Becky will move here soon. I do know that they are planning on coming out to see us this summer ~ maybe late summer.... I can't wait; if they come sooner that will be even better. (just after Abigail is born) so that the cousins can have some pictures taken together.

Tuesday, March 11, 2008

3/11/08

My appointment went well. Another iron and betamethasone shot today. Had to pre-register with with AnMed Health Campus for Labor and Delivery. My iron was up to 9.3 today. YEAH!!! I go in for my first NST (done weekly) starting next Tues... @ 3:45. My GBS swab came back negative. So hopefully things are starting to look up a little bit. Thank you to everyone who is praying and has us in their thoughts as we still have some time left before the baby is born. And it won't be long.

Additional Baby items from Bob and Becky




We knew that Bob & Becky were getting us the convertible 4-in-1 Baby crib; we had no idea that they were getting us the above items as well. Thanks so much Bob & Becky.

Monday, March 10, 2008

Today's appointment and class

Well, since last Tuesday I lost a lb. my iron went up from 8.3 to 9.1 (before the iron shot) But I kinda fudge on my iron intake (shhh) don't tell anyone. LOL Not to worry I told the Dr. I was supposed to be taking 2 a day and I have been taking 2 but every other day I took 3. I just made sure I got plenty of fiber foods to go with it. TEN weeks and TWO days till the due date. Not that I am counting or anything. I took an iron shot in the right butt cheek and a betamethasone shot in the left. I go back tomorrow for another iron shot and another betamethasone shot. I swear my body looks like that of a druggie. I up to this point would have considered myself to have needle phobia... I am beginning to wonder what that is. While I do not want an epidural, I jokingly told the nurse today that I thought I could handle a needle that big... Prenatal class went well ~ we have three more classes to go. I will also be going to a Breastfeeding class on 3/20 this is in addition to the other three classes still required.. Brian is glad that this is one class that isn't required of him ... I thought we were going to need smelling salts for him tonight. They showed three childbirth movie clips... Natural, with pain meds via IV and an Epidural.

Sunday, March 9, 2008

The Crib...Thank you Bob & Becky

A Huge Thank You to Bob (my brother) and Becky (his girlfriend) for getting us this wonderful 4-in-1 convertible crib. I can't wait till it arrives to start setting up the baby's things. Brian and I are very happy and excited. You will make a great uncle. Wished you both (well the baby too) lived closer ... maybe one day soon. Give Rachael Morgan a kiss and hug from Uncle Brian and Aunt Hannah. Send some pictures too. I am sure she is growing like a weed.

Saturday, March 8, 2008

Well this is Abigail


.. or what you can see of her. She absolutely didn't want her pictures being taken so much so that they are going to let me come in again on 3/25/08 for another session at no charge. What you see here is two feet in front of her face covering up her eyes with the nose in between. We saw a lot of her ears and arm... LOL oh well we will try again in two weeks.

Friday, March 7, 2008

Ultrasound 3D


While this is not Abigail's 3D .... I will put hers up. A big Thank You to Johnna and Edward F. for contributing to a 3D ultrasound which we otherwise would not have done due to cost. At 4 PM on 3/8 we go in for an ultrasound... We are both so excited.
This is what we will recieve in the ultrasound package tomorrow:
• Complete 30+ minute Ultrasound Session
• DVD video of your ultrasound including: 2D, 3D & 4D segments (as appropriate), set to music
• 4 Black and White 4x4 “thermal” images
• Sex Determination* (Upon request)
• 4 colorized portraits of your baby/babies.
• CD with 15-30 high-resolution 3D still images suitable for printing and emailing to family and friends.
• One year FREE access to BabyPeeks™, a customized online Baby Website. Everything you need to share your pregnancy experience with friends and family online! ($49.95 value)I will post some of the ultrasound pics as soon as we get them.

Moby Wrap


A big thank you to Gaile and Benson M. for the Moby Wrap. They got me this in the color chocolate, which is what I wanted. Thanks Again guys.

Happenings on 3/10 and 3/11

On 3/10 I go in at 10:15 AM for my first iron shot and my first Betamethasone shot (this shot is to develope Abigail's lungs) Brian and I also have our second of five prenatal classes Monday from 6:30 to 8:30

On 3/11 I go in at 2:30 PM for my second Betamethasone shot. (I am guessing I only have two of these). They will also set me up for my weekly Non Stress Test... What is this you are asking? well here is what a NST includes.

What is a nonstress test?
This simple, painless procedure is done during pregnancy to evaluate your baby's condition. During the test, your healthcare practitioner or a technician monitors your baby's heartbeat, first while the baby is resting and then while he's moving. Just as your heart beats faster when you're active, your baby's heart rate should go up while he's moving or kicking.The test is typically done if you've gone past your due date, or in the month leading up to your due date if you're having a high-risk pregnancy. Here are some reasons you might have a nonstress test:
• You have diabetes that's treated with insulin, high blood pressure, or some other medical condition that could affect your pregnancy.
• You have gestational hypertension.
• Your baby appears to be small or not growing properly.
• Your baby is less active than normal.
• You have too much or too little amniotic fluid.
• You've had a procedure such as an external cephalic version (to turn a breech baby) or third trimester amniocentesis (to determine whether your baby's lungs are mature enough for birth or to rule out a uterine infection). Afterward, your practitioner will order a nonstress test to make sure that your baby's doing well.
• You're past your due date and your practitioner wants to see how your baby is holding up during his extended stay in the womb.
• You've previously lost a baby in the second half of pregnancy, for an unknown reason or because of a problem that might happen again in this pregnancy. In this case, nonstress testing may start as early as 28 weeks. (Mine is starting at 30 Weeks)

What's the procedure like?
You may be advised to eat a meal just before the test in the hope that eating will stimulate your baby to move around more. Although there's no hard evidence that this works, it can't hurt. It's also a good idea to use the bathroom before the test, because you'll be lying strapped to a monitor for up to an hour.During the procedure, you lie on your left side, possibly with a wedge under your back that allows you to lean back. A technician straps two devices to your belly: One monitors your baby's heartbeat and movement; the other records contractions in your uterus. The technician listens to and watches your baby's heartbeat on an electronic screen while your contractions are recorded on paper.If your baby's not moving, he could be asleep. You might be asked to drink some water, juice, or soda to get him going, or the technician may nudge him gently through your abdomen or try to wake him with a buzzer. In some cases, you'll be asked to press a button when you feel the baby move. The test usually takes 20 to 60 minutes.
What do the results mean? If your baby's heart beats faster (at least 15 beats per minute over his resting rate) while he's moving for at least 15 seconds on two separate occasions during a 20-minute span, the result is normal, or "reactive." A normal result means that your baby is probably doing fine for now. Your practitioner may want to repeat the test every week (or more often) until your baby's born.If your baby's heart doesn't beat faster while he's moving or your baby doesn't move after about 90 minutes, the result is "nonreactive." A nonreactive result doesn't necessarily mean something is wrong. It just means that the test didn't provide enough information and you may need to take it again in an hour or take other tests such as a biophysical profile or contraction stress test.However, a nonreactive result could indicate that your baby isn't getting enough oxygen or that there are problems with the placenta. If your practitioner thinks that your baby's no longer doing well in the womb, she'll probably decide to induce labor.

Why does the test measure contractions, and why would I be having them?
For several reasons. First, you may or may not be having contractions at this point in your pregnancy. If you are, they could be Braxton-Hicks contractions, which are usually mild, irregular, and sporadic. These are harmless and common during the third trimester. But if you're less than 37 weeks pregnant and you're having continuous, repetitive, regular contractions, it could be a sign of preterm labor, and your practitioner will want to evaluate your cervix to see if it's dilated.Another reason to monitor contractions is to see whether your baby's heart rate changes when you're having them. That's what's measured during a contraction stress test. If the heart rate drops during a contraction, it may be a sign that that there's a problem with your placenta and that your baby's oxygen supply is compromised.

Tuesday, March 4, 2008

OK I had the glucose test on Friday... It was a tad bit high... 124 ..it should have been under 120, but the Dr. was not too worried about that. There were other things to worry about. I gained 7 lbs (no worry here) I had lost 12.... got those back and gained 7 more..... but that has all happened since about week 19 with the first 12... that I lost. Mi iron level was at 9.6 at the last appointment and it was 8.3 at this one. I went in after the appointment to the Hospital's lab for more blood work relating to my iron. Dr. Rivera really isn't happy to see that I have continued to drop. I go in on Monday morning and Tues afternoon to receive iron shots both days. He is concerned with the following things:

My previous six miscarriages,
Fertility issues
My endometerosis and laperoscopies
(this pregnancy)= HIGH RISK on the above factors and the factors below
My low level and continuously dropping iron levels
My low progesterone in the beginning that had to be taken to "help carry" the baby past the 12 weeks.

I will be starting in two weeks (if I understood him correctly) weekly NST and weekly pelvic exams. He is concerned with the placenta not doing it's job for the full nine months; based on all the above reasons. He will be ordering the steroids to give the baby to mature the lungs if the NST looks off and it looks like the placenta is not going to hold out. He isn't big on C- sections... glad to hear that but said a healthy baby if taken early was the goal. If It looks like through the NST(provided they come back good) and the increase of iron the baby will go full term otherwise he is looking and telling us to be prepared to have the baby taken between 35-37 weeks. I totally agree that I want a healthy baby above all out of this pregnancy even if I am scared to death of any potential problems. I would ask that everyone here be in prayer for Brian and I as we may - and I hope not, but for any issues or problems that may be encountered over the next 4-6 weeks. I have 11 weeks left if the baby were to be on time, but we are aware that Abigail may have to be delivered early if that is the best outcome for her.--

28 Weeks and 6 days.... or ending week 29

Abigail now weighs about 2 1/2 pounds (like a butternut squash) and is a tad over 15 inches long from head to heel. Her muscles and lungs are continuing to mature, and her head is growing bigger to make room for the developing brain. To meet her increasing nutritional demands, I'll need plenty of protein, vitamins C, folic acid, and iron. And because her bones are soaking up lots of calcium, I need to be sure to drink my milk (or find other good sources of calcium, such as cheese, yogurt, or enriched orange juice). This trimester, about 250 milligrams of calcium are deposited in Abigail's hardening skeleton each day.

Wednesday, February 27, 2008

Travel System


To Aunt Pat....


I know you are wanting to buy the Travel system. I am going to place a picture of one here. It isn't brand new in the box but still looks very new without the new cost price. The stroller was only used once and the carseat for 4 months before the little girl outgrew it. If you are Ok with getting me one that is a little used but still lots of life left... (and I think it is perfect) then let me know and I will let you know how much she is asking for it.

Wednesday, February 13, 2008

Feb. 29th-'08 ~ Gluclose Testing

Please be in thought and in prayer has I will have to go in for my three hour gluclose test. I go in Friday morning at 8 AM.... what fun and can't eat anything after midnight on Thursday... don't they know there is a baby in here, and sometimes the baby wants to be feed at 2:30 AM.... OK it is probably more me that wants food than the baby- but no need to starve the mother too.

Baby bedding---


I absolutely love this set; and it comes with 10 pieces; WOW... can be found at http://www.cherubsbedding.com/

Tuesday, February 12, 2008

Baby Shower

I will have my first baby shower April 5th; I am so excited. It is wonderful to see all the people that are so excited for Brian and I. This shower is being thrown by his dad's side of the family and I have decided to invite his mother's side to this shower has well. We don't get to see them all very often and I think it will be nice to have everyone together. Brian will be there too and I want to see if I can borrow a video camera for the event. I think it will be nice to have something like this taped. This baby will be Brian's dads first grandbaby. After so many years to get to this place in our lives we can say that we are truly blessed of God.

99 Days to Go

Well, as of today we have 99 days to go till Abigail Chrystalynn is here... (that is if she is on time). I am doing pretty well even if I still have my bad days. I had someone today tell me that I don't really look pregnant. It is very possible in the outfit I was wearing; a pair of sweats because it was so cold out. I have a dentist appointment today at 11:00 ~so not looking forward to that at all. I also have two new kids that started Monday... (three total) so now I have 2 boys and 1 girl in my care and they all get along so well.

Tuesday, February 5, 2008

Abigail's Development

Our baby is now 1 ½ pounds, with a length of about 13 ½ inches. Her wrinkly skin is soon going to be a thing of the past, as she begins to accumulate fat deposits. Before you know it, she will be a plump newborn. If we were able to look inside, we would see that Abigail’s hair has formed in texture and color. She may or may not lose that hair after she is born. Some babies lose their hair and grow new hair, maybe even a different color.

The spine is strengthening this week, as the joints, ligaments, and rings form to protect the spinal cord from any injury. The blood vessels in the lungs develop, in preparation for breathing. Our baby’s eyes can open and close now, and they will react to light. Her mouth is developing in preparation for the sucking reflex, as well as for swallowing. Her nostrils are opening this week, and she may even be able to smell. She is already practicing walking, as her feet pedal up against my uterine wall. With all her twisting and turning, it’s amazing that the umbilical cord remains uncompromised. The umbilical cord is built to sustain life even through all the twists and turns of our baby, as its tough anti-knotting capabilities keep it well intact.
The appointment went well...
1). Iron levels lower... so the put me on prescription iron...
2). I have carpal tunnel syndrome... had to buy a wrist splint...
3). Abigail's heartbeat was 155
4). I gained 6 lbs... grrrrrrrr since Jan 8th... (he said they don't really consider this a gain yet... as I have another lb. to gain before I am at the weight I was when I went in on Sept. 20th) after that they will consider it weight gain.
5). March 4th is my next app. at 4 PM and then I will start going every 3 weeks...

Monday, January 28, 2008

To those boys that want to date --- Abigail

The Declaration of Independence
Think I could tell you that first sentence
But then I’m lost
I can't begin to count the theories
I've had pounded in my head
That I forgot
I don't remember all that Spanish
Or the Gettysburg address
But there is one speech from high school
I'll never forget

(Chorus)

Come on in boy sit on down
And tell me about yourself
So you like my daughter do you now?
Yeah we think she's something else
She's her daddy's girl
Her momma's world
She deserves respect
That’s what she'll get
Ain’t it son?
Hey y'all run along and have some fun
I'll see you when you get back
Bet I’ll be up all night
Still cleanin' this gun

Well now that I’m a father
I’m scared to death one day my daughterIs gonna find
That teenage boy I used to be
That seems to have just one thing on his mind
She’s growin' up so fastIt won't be long before
I’ll have to put the fear of god into
Some kid at the door

(Chorus)

Come on in boy sit on down
And tell me about yourself
So you like my daughter do you now?
Yeah we think she's something else
She's her daddy's girl
Her momma's world
She deserves respect
That’s what she'll get
Now ain't it son?
Y’all go out and have some fun
I'll see you when you get back
Probably be up all night
Still cleanin' this gun

Now it's all for show
Ain’t nobody gonna get hurt
It’s just a daddy thing
And hey, believe me, man it works

(Chorus)

Come on in boy sit on down
And tell me about yourself
So you like my daughter do you now?
Yeah we think she's something else
She's her daddy's girl
Her momma's world
She deserves respect
That’s what she'll get
Now ain't it son?
Y’all run along and have a little fun
I'll see you when you get back
Probably be up all night
Still cleanin' this gun

Son, now y'all buckle up and have her back by te- let's say about nine...thirty.Drive safe.

Kicks and Punches... Having a Ball

This little girl inside of me... Abigail is her name... Well, let me tell you she is having a ball. She is doing flips, kicking and punching me. It is just to darn cute and amazing. I had been feeling those movements for about a week and Brian got to feel her kick on Saturday night... Talk about turning a man into mush. I can't even describe the look of amazement and wonder on his face. He is so happy to be becoming a daddy. I am so happy for him too. He says everyday that this feels so surreal; that he can't believe that "this" is happening. I live each day with newness and just thank God everyday for allowing me to be a part of His wonderful plan in feeling from the inside and looking from the outside this growing girl of ours.

Friday, January 18, 2008

It's a ....

~~~~GIRL~~~~ Everything went wonderfully today even if it did take awhile for our precious bundle to show the "GOODS" ~ a little shy.... That is a good thing. Was a little disappointed that the only pic I got was of our baby's head scan... a great big head... And boy does this little girl move.... I haven't felt much as of yet; Dr. says if movement keeps up like this I will never get any rest. Iron levels were down again...Grrrrrr [:-/] What am I doing wrong?!?!?!?! Oh well, baby weighs about 14 oz. right now and it's looking like we might just have an acrobat on our hands with all the back flips baby was doing. I am so happy and since Brian said it was a girl from the start he did a little victory dance in the room after the Dr. left. I, then, wanted him to buy the first outfit. He is so happy and I can't wait till this baby is here.

Thursday, January 17, 2008

16 weeks and 6 days to GO

Well, I just have 16 weeks and 6 days to go till the estimated due date.... I am in Week 23 now. I am so excited even if my body isn't up to par... LOL I still have my days of nausea and a few of those are still vomiting. I have a weird question can "iron" make you vomit? I have to take 3x the amount of iron required for most pregnant women.. I don't absorb iron into my body very well at all and so baby dearest is depleting my body of what I do have; so they doubled and now tripled my iron intake... I swear it makes me sick and vomit not to mention I burp (un~lady like; I know) iron all day long.

Provided that the weather holds at bay tomorrow, and the baby shows the "GOODS" we will know if we are having a BOY or GIRL~~~~

Tuesday, January 8, 2008

Tuesday ... January 8th... What did the Dr. Say!!!

Well, all went well or almost well~!!!! The GREAT News ~ Baby is measuring just fine... Heartbeat was 166 and we could hear baby dearest kicking... Still wondering when I am going to feel those kicks... I gained 2 pounds... (Yikes) Really I guess it is OK since I lost 12... The bad was my iron level was bad... worse than 4 weeks ago... I am doing everything the Dr. says (no liquid iron as he said can cause tooth damaged) Well, at the very 1st appointment it was 11.1... I got it to 11.5 at the second appointment... then 11.1 and then 10.5 and today's was 9.7... They are giving me one more month to get it up... with extra iron supplements (till Feb. 5th) if the levels are not up by then ... well then it is time for iron shots... (Weekly) or by IV every 2-3 weeks...I can't take it that... NEEDLES~ you got to be kidding.... I am eating two to three times off the iron group daily... The next appointment is Feb 5th at 1:45 PM...

~Now for the BEST NEWS~ if I can only wait this long.... Friday, Jan. 18th at 9:45 AM we will find out if we are having a boy or girl.... I can't wait... Still trying to figure out if we want to do the 3D/4D ultrasound....in 8 weeks